"Real Men..."

"If I were to describe my so-called "Perfect" woman, she would be as follows: Intelligent, Witty, Humorous, Self-Confident, Nurturing, Attractive, and Sexy/Sexual. Or rather, A Scholar, Clown, Queen, Mother, !#&!! ...add "Bread Winner" to make
the list more current. Is this too much to ask? - Brett"

Brett, 
I don't think you're asking too much. I know many women who fit your criteria very well. They simply haven't found a "real man" that will take care of them the way they need to be taken care of, simply because these days, those "real men" are few and far between. 

Women tire of men who are frail, weak, or boys never seeming to want to grow up. These days, the type of quality woman you're describing will look at the entire package and realize that she'd be better off alone. 

When a man finds himself, and becomes the man God intended him to be, without hesitation, he'll ultimately find the woman of his dreams. She'll fit him like a glove. 

When a man is finally not afraid of being a real man, he'll soon realize he is worth having the extraordinary woman you describe, because he himself has become, an extraordinary man. 

I leave you with one of my favorite quotes from George Bernard Shaw. "People blame circumstances for where they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who succeed in this world are the people who go out and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them."

It was really great meeting you Brett. Looking forward to reading more of your work, including your new book. It's time has come, and is desperately needed. You've inspired me, and will continue to inspire every one of your readers. 

"Thank you". 
- Edie